Women in the western culture don’t see men as ATM cards; as a result, they don’t burden them with personal requirements because they believe it is their obligation to take care of themselves.
However, once a man begins dating a woman in Africa, she instantly becomes an orphan and is forced to pay all of his expenditures, even though his only transgression was to declare his love for her.
In my opinion, a partnership is for the benefit of both parties, so women should accept the fact that they occasionally must pay their own bills as well as, occasionally, those of their partners’ partners.
It’s not a must, but it’s the smartest thing to do otherwise she may be regarded as a liability. Men ain’t ATMs.
A Nigerian lady has gone viral on Twitter over a controversial statement which has ignited a hot debate on the micro-blogging platform.
According to the lady who can be identified on the micro-blogging platform as @Jojonitq, men should feel ashamed and sense of uselessness if they allow their women to pay their bills.